“There Is No Such Thing As Casual Sex Or Friends With Benefits.” – Halima Abubakar


Kogi originated Nollywood actress Halima Abubakar has become an inspirational sex teacher overnight.  Via her Instagram page, the courageous actress shared more viable insight on the negative effects of having casual sex, and intercourse with multiple partners reasons because she insisted that sex is sacred and shouldn’t be deposited in several places.

She believes strongly that when a man and a woman share their bodies, it brings forth spiritual connection between them and as such, the partners soul is deposited in the other every time there is an intercourse. Read her lengthy post below

Every man or woman you have sex with deposits & leaves a part of their soul in you.

“Most of us haven’t been properly educated about sex. It’s almost a taboo to discuss these things outside of private matters, but the silence leads to a lack of awareness of what it even is. Does anybody even know? I mean it is the most powerful force that creates life.

“Most see it as a physical experience, but forget the bond, connection, energy exchange, and deep cellular interaction one experiences with their partner. When men or women decide to have multiple partners, it can send mixed emotional signals inside of the body’s vibration system.


“People must be careful of different energies or spiritual forces polluting their internal temple. That imprint can often create illusion of a sexual addiction. Ever wonder why they call it sexual intercourse (INTER-Course)? It’s an internal course that unites man and woman, mind with mind, spirit with spirit, or energy with energy. This is something that a condom can’t protect you against because energy is behind the elements of all flesh.

“There is no such thing as “casual” sex or “friends with benefits.” Intimate activity intricately entwines the energies between two people. Sex creates a powerful exchange of sexual energy between those involved. These connections, imprints and debris are left upon the mind, soul and spirit for a long time because they are not easily purged or cleansed.

Halima Abubakar  (JDI Photos)
“This is the concept of how STDs are also formed, when multiple cellular communities (bodies) come in contact, a virus or bacteria forms. On a physical level we have been educated to use “protection” but on an energy level nobody discuses the affects it creates on ones mind, body, and soul. It’s too much of a taboo to discuss and hidden away to avoid.

“Become aware of what’s going on, even if you’ve never heard it before, just think about it, ponder on it, and see the inner wisdom you receive.”




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