Ladies that phrase completely annoys me! Have you ever met a man who is in his thirties and is so out of shape, both physically and all and has a requirement for a partner, spouse whatever. Ehm “She must be slim and have a flat stomach.” And the lists of requirements go on. Whereas him the man is fat, with a big stomach and has not seen his you know what in God knows how many years!
Sorry, if I can take the time to spend an hour everyday at the gym to make sure that I maintain my figure, why would you think I would want to look at a man that is completely out of shape? Or another one is a married man that constantly nags his wife about how she looks after she has given him 4 children. Him on the other hand does not look anything like he did when you initially got married. For one he has lost all his hair and is trying to hold on to the last few strands, and all the years of his wife’s great cooking has finally paid off for him because he no longer looks like a shrimp they rescued from Warri waterside. He has the mid age pot belly. But she the wife still takes him for who he is?
Ladies, guys, what do you all think?