5 Ways To Impress A Girl On A First Date

Ways To Impress A Girl

Ways To Impress A Girl

Guess who’s back? Yea it’s your girl, Jummai and I’m back bring good tidings. No trouble this time, I promise. About a year ago I posted 5 don’ts for men on a first date, and I figured to my self, Why not tell guys what to do to impress a girl on a first date. So here I am.

I’ve been on numerous date in my life… More than I needed to actually, and I’ve come across all kinds of characters. Some clueless guys, some over aggressive guys, some boring guys, and definitely some excellent ones. So what makes a guy stick out to you after going on a lot of date? That’s what we’re here to discuss. Those things that those guys do that impress hot babes like us on a first date.

1. Be Prepared With A Plan

There aren’t too many things more impressive than a guy that is prepared for a date. It shows you took some time out to think about how the date will do. You don’t have to have a minute to minute plan (cos that’s weird) but a general plan of how the date will go. For example Dinner, Drinks, then a Lounge. Sounds like a decent enough plan. Just don’t show up and say, “So what do you want to do?

2. Be Clean

When I say clean, I really mean clean. That means take a shower, wear clean nice clothes (you don’t have to have the latest fashion), deodorant, brushed teeth, hair groomed etc. I’m talking be clean. You’d be surprised how being clean can get you up the ladder pretty quick. And if you’re picking her up in your car, make sure that’s clean too. No girl likes a guy that’s just looking anyhow.

3. Bring A Small Gift

You’re trying to impress her right? Bring a small gift. It doesn’t have to be anything too expensive. A small box of chocolate, flowers, a bottle of wine etc are examples of little things that you can bring. It will go a long way to scoring you some serious points. But make sure it’s nothing too expensive. I mean don’t bring an S4 galaxy in the name of a gift. You might come off as too strong or focusing on showing off. Something thoughtful and small does the trick. I’m sure before the date you would’ve found out something she would like.

4. Communicate Well

This is probably the most important part of the date after #2 of course. Be a good communicator. That means ask questions, listen to her talk, look into her eyes and don’t colonize the conversation. Don’t talk too much about your achievements (as Nigerian men tend to do) or talk about yourself the whole time. Get to know her. It should be a dialog not a monolog.

It also helps to be funny, but don’t try too hard.

5. Pay For The Date

Unless you’re dutch, please pay the bill. If she offers, please decline. It’s a trick. LOL. It’s not because you want to impress her with your money, or she cant pay for herself. It’s just because it’s the right thing to do. Just fall in line and do as told because believe me, if you don’t, the chances of you hearing back from her is slim to none. Even the big time extreme feminists will not like you for it.


Well that’s all folks. Hope I’ve helped one of two or ten people out there with these tips. Follow these steps and if she doesn’t call you back, then come and get your money back. 😀



  1. Buy her gift? for what abeg? Is she dropping the pant that nite. This jummai babe you’re just stupid. I don’t understand how they let you blog on jaguda sef

    • with your comment there, who is the stupid one? she made valid points and u can ignore them without hurling insults.

  2. Man listen o. Listen well well, cos I swear some of these men just don’t get it. they think it’s by doing big boy up and down

  3. Hmmm,jummia not all the time this tinx work,if a gurl don’t like you,you just dey waste your time,even wen U̶̲̥̅̊ try hard to impress her,trust ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥.

  4. Some girls can be so stupid dat when u do all dis they will see u as nothin but a fool,i cant spend on any girl unless i’m sure of her love for me.

  5. All na wash.. Buy gift, pay the bills..if she doesn’t like u, she cnt..galaxy s4 or pluto s5..if its nt u, its nt u..u don’t even need to buy sth for her before she loves u..if she would love u, she would def.

  6. U jus remenisin a point afront of zero. Weird tinz becomz feud wen both realise d minin of love, amemba love stat wit likez b4 filinz n a step 2giv a try. Once u re bein love, even u d top 5, defnetly she wil c u as d most high. So pls mrs ju stop pingin we re nt beries to flink in d street we rule. Mr. TOVE. Two Over Volum Emotion.

  7. You guys are forgetting the fact that it is a first date (say you saw her picture on your friend’s dp and got her pin from him/her some days or weeks ago and you both decide to meet each other). With that in mind, these points are very valid (except for the gift part where a lot of us have reservations). One very important point however that the author skipped was that of TIME, no girl loves to be kept waiting. Cheers…

  8. To me some of these tips might work out fine at 50percent but been oneself works 99.9percent, its just a date you need not to put extra pressure on yourself. what matter most is the connectivity between you and the lady during the course of the date. Make fun and what will be will be.


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