Relationships

Relationship stories and advice as it pertains to the Nigerian couple

Hey guys, Mgbeks here!Lately I’ve been pondering on this issue of sex in a relationship and why it is SO important to men. I keep having conversations with guys who insist that if their girls aren’t giving it up then she got to go. They say things like ‘body...
"To ba b'oni sakara pade | Pasan to ma fi na e oje l'o nje | Kini won se npe o | Shakara oloje ni". Those are the lyrics to one of my favorite Fela songs "Shakara Oloje." Of course I'd like that song seeing that I dey feel...
Bill and Casey have been together and dating for a little over 5yrs. They both live together and have always done everything together. In the beginning of the 6th year, things start to get sour, the spark was gone, the romance going down the drain, and everything seemed to...
Ladies, it’s 2009…what are your thoughts on approaching a man? Do you still sit back, cross your legs and act cute and hope that he’ll notice you batting your eyes at him? Or do you take matters into your own hands and step to him. Guys, what do you think...
Before I start, I want to say that this is in no way, shape, or form intended to attack or pass judgment on anyone for their choices, and decisions in life. I respect everyone's choice, and decision to do what they think is best for them in their lives....
Back again with part 2 of my 10 part series "10 things I love about Naija." Like I mentioned in part 1, Naija in these series applies to the people of, and the country Nigeria. With that being said, I'll jump right into it. Part 2, as in, the...
This one degree of separation amongst NIGERIANS is becoming insane. This happens 9 times out of ten, I meet a fine looking naija man, with serious prospects - lets call him Chinedu. This is how the discussion goes most times:Meyonce: Bola mehnnn I met this Fine boy oh last...
Yes... I'm taking it there. I know some people's blood is already hot, but I'll go ahead and jump into it. I was having a discussion with a friend over this past weekend about who is a virgin, and what constitutes being a virgin (Of course she started her...
 Do you believe in prenuptial agreements? If you meet the girl/guy that you want to marry, would you make him or her sign a pre-nup that forbids him or her from taking anything that belongs to you, if the marriage doesn't work. Ladies, would you feel like your man...
"My wife can never cheat on me." (said with conviction). Those were the words of one of my older friends when asked if his future wife would ever cheat on him. So I asked him why he felt that way, "why don't you think your wife will ever cheat...
Ever since my arrival in Yankee, I realized that the protocol for dating a man in this country is just too much. I am so used to the naija way of love, you like me, I like you, that’s it, we are together. But no, yankee people do things...
I'm not even sure where to begin with this video. I'm sure some folks have already seen it but I had to post it on here for those that haven't or those that just feel like seeing what I have to say about it. This, I must say, is...
Marriage is hard no doubt, and there is not magic trick to having a perfect everlasting married life. I can't say too much about marriage since I myself am not married. However, I've seen enough from the outside looking in to know that it's not an easy road. A...
There is a very interesting & disturbing phenomenon going on in yankee these days that has seemed to work its way from Nigeria. The idea that it's common practice for a guy that wants to date a girl to take her and her friends out on the first date,...
So what made me start writing this verbiage?.... I don't know.... Maybe it's cos it's getting close to the end of the year and every nigerian I know is entertaining the thought of going back to naija this xmas, or maybe it's cos I just talked to my brother...

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