More often than not, you meet a young Nigerian babe in her early twenties and the only thing on her mind is “God please take away all this stupid, ‘yeye’, small boys from my path and bless me with a fine man, senior partner in shell or chevron any...
 “He cannot stand her.  They haven’t lived together in years.  They don’t get along”  are the most common phrases used to justify being a mistress.  Women reason that because their boyfriends are separated or unhappy with their marriage, it makes it okay to have a relationship with someone else’s...
Interestingly enough Ebun had been waiting for his call. He was the love of her life or at least had been the love of her life for the last three months. The calls had been abundant were not coming in small trickles. To make things worse, the idiots she...
Doesn't have to come around.(Notification: This is a 5 part series) As Kunle Cole waited for his twin brother Kayode to finish up with auto dealer, his phone rang with his favorite song "You the Boss" by Rick Ross playing. He smiled when he realized that contact on the...
Disclaimer: If I sound bitter in this article it is because I am. I am tired of people in unhappy/mediocre marriages trying to repeat the cycle with me and other Nigerian females. Most importantly, I am frustrated with people downplaying my worth and intelligence.So I have a question: Is...
Nna men this girl don erase me from her life. A whole ME, Eziokwu?  Does she know who I am? These were the initial thoughts that ran through my mind. But after a while (a couple minutes) I decided to move on with my life. I consider myself to...

Mekus Chronicles

MEKUS SPEAKS…It was just another Sunday; I was at attending a get together at friend’s house when a cute caramel skin girl catches my eyes. First thought, is “Biko where did this Asa come from?” I observe at a distance for the next half an hour or so. Then...
Thinking about the guys that have toasted me in the past,or are currently toasting me now, I have come to realise that guys have no pattern, no motif of detection whatsoever. They randomly select who they will date and who they will be official with. Some guys have toasted...
Almost every girl wonders what went wrong when she suddenly finds herself single again.  Was it something you did or said?  Sometimes yet, and sometimes no.  Here are some of the top reasons why men dump women.  Take a look and see which of these (if any) apply to...

What Is Healthy?

What constitutes a healthy relationship? Would we know one when we see it? Better yet, would we know what an unhealthy relationship looks like?Many of us, unfortunately, have grown up in unhealthy relationships. Be it as a result of "culture" , religion, or just plain old human upbringing. The...

It’s Over

"You don't call me anymore..." "You only call me when you want to have sex..." "I asked you the other night, who was calling you at 5 A.M., you just brushed it off..." "I feel like you're using me..." "I don't fully trust you..." "Why did you makeup with me after our abrupt breakup...
If you watch medical dramas, like me, you might have either heard of or watched the show called Private PracticeIn the show, there was a woman called Lorraine who was unable to have a baby and so used her sister as a surrogate, using her husbands sperm and her...
It really starts with a stare, simple as that. I feel you turn and I notice your eyes follow me. In my mind I’m wondering, “gosh another one”. My eyes cold, dark, the eyes that have seen enough, but still you approach me with “a simple hello”. It’s actually...
Proclaiming to be a “smart,” “different from all the other chicks,” “never want to be a typical negative statistic,” “I will never trap a man,” “I will never settle,” “I want the best future,” “I deserve a great family,” shouting woman who becomes head over heels in love with...

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