“He cannot stand her.  They haven’t lived together in years.  They don’t get along”  are the most common phrases used to justify being a mistress.  Women reason that because their boyfriends are separated or unhappy with their marriage, it makes it okay to have a relationship with someone else’s...
  Dear NwaVic, I was a player few years ago but when my brother returned from the UK, he wanted me to change and I did so. So when he returned to the Uk, he (my bro) introduced me to a girl in the UK who happens to be a very...
8 Signs You're Ready to Move in Together ... If you’ve been with your boyfriend for a while, you may be looking for signs you’re ready to move in together. This is a big step with a lot of things to consider. To help you make sure, here are eight...
Comedian Ali Baba shares this write up on his Facebook page about the Nigerian woman and finding Mr Right. Read Below...   “I have a serious matter at hand that I want to share. In fact, I should have shared this long ago, but the primary message from a friend that prompted...
So, it happened....in a restaurant, at a public event,  maybe by flash mob, at the spot you first met, at your birthday, or his, within the privacy of your bedroom, or his or in front of family and friends....that man you love asked you to be his wife. So,...
Proclaiming to be a “smart,” “different from all the other chicks,” “never want to be a typical negative statistic,” “I will never trap a man,” “I will never settle,” “I want the best future,” “I deserve a great family,” shouting woman who becomes head over heels in love with...
Last week, my hairdresser told me I was too much for her. She said I haggle prices, then I'm always looking in the mirror to make sure she's doing it right. I was shocked. I mean, little old sweet me. *bats eyelashes* I was really tempted to be offended. I...
You may be familiar with the cliché, “Why buy the milk when you could get the cow for free?” The saying simply means there is no need to make an investment in something when you are gaining the benefits from it already.  Think about it carefully.  In some traditions...
We don’t mean to lie but we kinda have to, just to keep the peace. Yes, we females are far from perfect. I’m really sorry ladies; I guess I feel I owe it to them. So here are the top 10 lies woman tell men. Once again, I’m really sorry ladies. 1)      I don’t...
These days, among many of my friends, wedding planning is the order of the day. Last year alone, I was a bridesmaid 4 times. This year, i'll be a bridesmaid at least 3 times. Moreover, following a certain romantic event on Valentine's Day, wedding planning is now on my...
Dear Nwavic, My boyfriend and I are both 23 and were high school sweethearts in Nigeria before we moved here and continued our relationship. We've been together for so long and love each other dearly. We are both graduates and have secured good jobs. The problem is that I am...
Dear NwaVic, Your writing is truly inspiring. I was just gonna pass by but I’ve decided to share my experience so I would get earnest advice from you. I am 21 year old 300 level student. I met a lady in April 2012 who I've grown to love. At first, I...
Dear NwaVic, Nice work you got going here. Keep it up. I have a serious issue on my mind about a lady I am dating. I'm currently on the 6th month of NYSC in Taraba state. Because of the distance and insurgency in the area, I have not traveled to...
More often than not, you meet a young Nigerian babe in her early twenties and the only thing on her mind is “God please take away all this stupid, ‘yeye’, small boys from my path and bless me with a fine man, senior partner in shell or chevron any...
Thinking about the guys that have toasted me in the past,or are currently toasting me now, I have come to realise that guys have no pattern, no motif of detection whatsoever. They randomly select who they will date and who they will be official with. Some guys have toasted...
Almost every girl wonders what went wrong when she suddenly finds herself single again.  Was it something you did or said?  Sometimes yet, and sometimes no.  Here are some of the top reasons why men dump women.  Take a look and see which of these (if any) apply to...

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