Comedian Ali Baba shares this write up on his Facebook page about the Nigerian woman and finding Mr Right.Read Below... “I have a serious matter at hand that I want to share. In fact, I should have shared this long ago, but the primary message from a friend that prompted...
I came across this article yesterday, thanks to my FB friend Julia. It is written by Frank Powell on his blog. He runs a great blog, by the way. :-)In light of a similar article I penned, this article is very much on-point. By reading, I learned so much...I...
 Dear NwaVic,I was a player few years ago but when my brother returned from the UK, he wanted me to change and I did so. So when he returned to the Uk, he (my bro) introduced me to a girl in the UK who happens to be a very...
8 Signs You're Ready to Move in Together ...If you’ve been with your boyfriend for a while, you may be looking for signs you’re ready to move in together. This is a big step with a lot of things to consider. To help you make sure, here are eight...
Dear NwaVic,I just read your post on long distance relationships and I loved it. I am currently in a LDR and it has gotten to the scary part. Since I got back to school my boyfriend has been a bit off. He doesn't check up on me as frequently...
Ever since I penned 7 Keys to Finding a Good Husband, I have been bombarded with requests for a similar piece directed to men. The women commenters were worried that a one-sided post painted women as the weaker link, desperate for a husband and the men not needing to do...
These days, among many of my friends, wedding planning is the order of the day. Last year alone, I was a bridesmaid 4 times. This year, i'll be a bridesmaid at least 3 times. Moreover, following a certain romantic event on Valentine's Day, wedding planning is now on my...
Dear Nwavic,My boyfriend and I are both 23 and were high school sweethearts in Nigeria before we moved here and continued our relationship. We've been together for so long and love each other dearly. We are both graduates and have secured good jobs. The problem is that I am...
Last week, my hairdresser told me I was too much for her. She said I haggle prices, then I'm always looking in the mirror to make sure she's doing it right. I was shocked. I mean, little old sweet me. *bats eyelashes*I was really tempted to be offended. I...
Dear NwaVic,I've been having issues with my heart. I can't seem to truly fall in love again since my boyfriend of 8yrs left me.  It is complicated though. I invested my time and especially money into it. Did crazy things for him. I met him when I was 16...
Dear NwaVic,Your writing is truly inspiring. I was just gonna pass by but I’ve decided to share my experience so I would get earnest advice from you.I am 21 year old 300 level student. I met a lady in April 2012 who I've grown to love. At first, I...
When single and wanting to maintain that status because of desires to have fun; usually consisting of casual or consistent sex and talking to several people at once to boost up ones own morale, while perhaps also gaining sexual and even financial favors are typically the objection for such...
We don’t mean to lie but we kinda have to, just to keep the peace.Yes, we females are far from perfect.I’m really sorry ladies; I guess I feel I owe it to them.So here are the top 10 lies woman tell men. Once again, I’m really sorry ladies.1)      I don’t...
Love, the golden word that binds all and heals all. Love, just a bit of it would make the world a better place. Love, that sweet poison which makes us do crazy meaningless things.Ever seen a full grown man breakdown in public and shed oceans of tears, uncontrollably, without shame, bereft...
Ahhhhh......The signs! Wait signs? What signs? Are there signs? I hear you ask...... Oh, there are signs alright, but you need to be savvy enough. Think of a relationship as a business, you need to invest, maintain and communicate. If you’re not doing all three of these things or...
You may be familiar with the cliché, “Why buy the milk when you could get the cow for free?” The saying simply means there is no need to make an investment in something when you are gaining the benefits from it already.  Think about it carefully.  In some traditions...
More often than not, you meet a young Nigerian babe in her early twenties and the only thing on her mind is “God please take away all this stupid, ‘yeye’, small boys from my path and bless me with a fine man, senior partner in shell or chevron any...
 “He cannot stand her.  They haven’t lived together in years.  They don’t get along”  are the most common phrases used to justify being a mistress.  Women reason that because their boyfriends are separated or unhappy with their marriage, it makes it okay to have a relationship with someone else’s...
Interestingly enough Ebun had been waiting for his call. He was the love of her life or at least had been the love of her life for the last three months. The calls had been abundant were not coming in small trickles. To make things worse, the idiots she...
Doesn't have to come around.(Notification: This is a 5 part series) As Kunle Cole waited for his twin brother Kayode to finish up with auto dealer, his phone rang with his favorite song "You the Boss" by Rick Ross playing. He smiled when he realized that contact on the...
Disclaimer: If I sound bitter in this article it is because I am. I am tired of people in unhappy/mediocre marriages trying to repeat the cycle with me and other Nigerian females. Most importantly, I am frustrated with people downplaying my worth and intelligence.So I have a question: Is...