With regards to the title, no pun intended. I think Chinese men are cool… I guess. I don’t even know, but yeah… I mean no disrespect.
Men. Please raise your hands if you’ve heard “Nigerian men are controlling, Nigerian men are too dry, Nigerian men don’t have swag, Nigerian men are too cheap, Nigerian men are too this and that, and all that in between.” Ok hands down, cos I can’t see with all the hands in the air.
These sort of complaints give me a damn headache because I believe in life we all have choices. If you feel ‘xyz’ about Nigerian men and don’t want to date them anymore, the solution is very simple. Try men from other areas. There are about 196 countries in the world so really, there are many fish in the sea… There’s Ghanaians, Liberians, Americans, Italians, Chinese, Iraqis, Cameroonians, Brazilians, British, Russian etc. I mean you get the point… Options plenty. If all else fails, try women.
We’ve been taught in our life that we have the power to choose. If you don’t like beans, you chop rice instead. If you don’t like tee-shirts, then wear button down shits. Oh you don’t like 2face? Ba wahala, Dbanj CD dey. It can be that simple. No need acting like you’re being forced to date us or that there’s this thing that has made it impossible for you to date other men.
I’ll give credit to the girls that do complain and actually date men from other races and nationalities. Kudos to them for doing what they feel instead of constantly whining in our ears over men we have no control over.
As a guy, I personally love Nigerian women. Yeah, they have their issues and what not, but I always say, that “if no be Naija, I no do“. I just love them the way they are… all their wahala and shakara join. No offense to Non-Naija babes, but that’s my choice though.
But I find that sometimes it’s not the same with our babes. We have to put up with all kinds of what we are (negatively) and what we are not (also negatively). At the end of the day it’s still the same Naija men that most of these babes end up dating or marrying.
So please ehn. Naija babes (that I love with all my heart) if you don’t think there are good Naija men, you can always try Chinese men. I heard they are pretty cool… I guess.
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