Love, Sex and Physical Abuse…

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I went to a friend’s party on night and I saw this guy… he wasn’t the finest but he was good looking enough, he was not the best dressed, but he was stylish enough. For me he was enough for me physically but now how will he know it. I saw him talking to this other girl, laughing with her and I sort of felt jealous. I asked my friend if she knew him and it turned out that she did. I wanted an introduction, I needed to meet him, so my friend told me not to worry, she’ll hook me up.  Minutes later the guy walked up to me, he looked at me like he could see my soul and he said hi. I felt like a princess, it was like wow, was my friend that good at psyching guys or was I really just attractive to this guy? He told me he had been watching me look at him and I was like ” funny you should mention that but I had been watching you do the same thing”… this was me flirting seriously, flirting is one of my weakest points… we exchanged numbers, and we started calling each other, two months after we started dating. i was in relationship heaven.

I introduced him to my parents after a month of dating and my mother had feelings about him I did not like. I was very upset with her. If I needed an enemy of progress I would not want it to be my mother. After one week she told me to break up with him that he was not my husband. All I was thinking was who said anything about marriage. Yes I’m 25, but does it have to be marriage. After that day that I fully acknowledged to my parents that I was not breaking up with my new boyfriend, they started treating me bad. I had no peace so I moved in with my boyfriend and he was the happiest.

My relationship bliss continued until his birthday party. I saw him in the corner talking to the same girl I saw him with the night I met him. The way they were whispering in each others ears was a little uncomfortable for me but I ignored it. My man was not cheating on me, if he were he would not have asked me to move in with him. I was talking and playing hostess when I noticed he had disappeared and so had the girl, I went to the rooms to look for him but he wasn’t there.  I asked his friend and then he told me he had stepped out to get some more booze, but the only problem I had was there was excess “booze” so I stepped out after him and I saw his car still there. I walked up to his car, and when I saw him with her, I was furious. I mean really pissed off. I knocked on the back seat window so he knows I saw him. He came out of the car, shocked, wondering how I knew he was there and all I could do was look at him in disbelief and ask why.  One the other hand, the girl came out of the car with no remorse, looking at me from head to toe like I had encroached on her territory, but I could not have that. I proceeded to say all the insulting words I knew I could use in this situation to her, and he had to hold me back as I was ready to  rip her apart. I yelled at him to let me go and when he did I walked into the party again and pretended all was well.

When the party was over I confronted him, still furious, but he was just quiet. As I was still yelling and shouting, he got up, and before I could understand what was happening his hand landed on my face…

part 2 coming soon…

11 COMMENTS

  1. There really should be no part 2 after he cheated on you and slapped you. You should have ended this article right now with one sentence – "I got up, picked my things and left that loser for good."

    Needless to say I will not be coming back to read part two because it is pointless. Good luck.

  2. Girl no waste your time, just come make we marry. No worry you parents go like me and I no go make my hand land for your face.

  3. if he hasn't planted in u, pretend u need a break. dat way, u'll no what u r into. n don't feel bad about d outcome

  4. hummmmm ma dear if it is just u and him in the house, Don't SLAP HIM BACK!!! Just jejely leave the house with ur pride on ur head… on the other hand, if u'v gat company in the house, make sure to clap him back and scream so ppl can come help if his gonna beat the living day light outter you…. NOTHING JUSTIFIES A MAN THAT HITS A WOMAN…

  5. trust me i downplayed the story…the original is worse… i couldn't hear the rest but i had to… i'm very against physical abuse but i am also very against stupidity…

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