I met this wonderful guy in 2007, fell in love with him and we started dating immediately. He was 39 and I was 29.We were so into eachother,but the only problem was that he had a kid from a previous marriage and was scared of remarrying cos his ex wife had betrayed him. I loved him so much but at the same time, I wanted to get married cos age was not on my side.
Exactly a year into our relationship, I met someone else and decided to get married to the new guy. I am now 9 months into my marriage but I can’t get my ex out of my head. We still exchange emails, text messages and even phone calls. I love him so much that just thinking about him makes me cry.
My husband is the most lousy person in bed. He cant even move his waist. I sometimes wish I just stayed with my ex cos no man has ever made love to me like him. We flow in bed, we can talk for 30 days non stop if we were left alone, we can laugh over the most senseless things together. My hubby on the other hand is a total swegbe.
Is marriage really important? Why cant we just be with the one we truly love without the issue of marriage coming in? I need answers, somebody please answer me. I’m confused.